我又有問題啦...“識趣/不識趣”，“自作聰明”，還有“兼顧家庭和事業”在英語有什麼類似的講法?謝謝xd

I don't wish to play gooseberry.I don't wish to be the third/ fifth wheel.

Don't look wise.

Balancing a career and family is a common concern for most individuals.

識趣 = be able to humor somebody; be mature; be sophisticated; be street smart他自作聰明，同意廠商調高價格，讓公司賠錢 = He took the liberty of agreeing to the vendor's cost-up request and caused the company a fortune.兼顧家庭和事業 = balance family and work